September 11: "It's going to be a lovely day" is a statement of faith, not fact.
I had completed 10 years as a middle school counselor. That fall of my 11th year, as a matter of good mental health, I knew that if I were to have the proper attitude at work, I was going to have to choose that attitude and have it in place before I parked my truck in front of the school. It wasn't going to come easy. On the home front, my much loved first-born son was gone away for college. I was just coming off a spiritual high, from leading a team of well over one hundred men in an intense weekend of spiritual self-examination in a Christian renewal retreat. As often happens, when you come off the mountain top, aggravations present themselves; My first piece of mail upon my return home was a notification that my check had bounced at my son's college book store. But the point that I was clear on was this: if I allowed the joys and frustrations of working with 1100 young men and women in the 7th and 8th grade, their parents and their teachers, to determine my attitude, I wa...